Home 101: “The Homegirl Effect”

December 17th, 2008 at 1:25 am · 25 Comments


As you may have seen on Friday before the incriminating video was removed, there’s some pretty dodgy people out there on PlayStation Home. The thing is, it goes down a lot deeper than the unfortunate incident that YouTube’s flagging ninjas got hold of last week. So much deeper, that I’ve even coined a term for it. And filed a patent.

Alright, maybe not the last one. I think the US Patent Office might just reject a “patent describing the psychological behavior of male individuals around females on PlayStation-based 3D chat environments”. But that’s the general idea, and I call it “The Homegirl Effect”. You know, like a homeboy except…a girl.

The thing is, it’s an extremely troubling sort of issue. Seriously, you’ll see what I mean after the break.

I was hoping – really hoping – that Home would be the anti-Second Life. With a bunch of sensible PS3 owners, I thought, everybody would be decent towards each other, united by the common cause of owning the same console and enjoying it. There wouldn’t be any sexualised nonsense or abuse of other users, with the threat of moderation and IP bans hanging over everyone’s head. With the original closed betas yielding good results, with the community of testers getting along fantastically, I was looking forward to the open beta’s release to see this repeated in greater numbers.

Oh boy. That was a serious misconception. You only have to look at some of the SG community Twitters (or, dare I say it, use Home yourself) to see that initial impressions have revolved around the fact that Home is mostly populated by sexist perverts, homophobes and general morons. And that doesn’t look to change any time soon.

Enter the Homegirl Effect. In Europe, the Effect can be seen once or twice when out in the main Home Square. In Europe, nearly everybody is involved in a conversation with a friend or two; either that, or they walk around aimlessly for a while and stare at the video screens. Once or twice you’ll get a bloke approaching a girl and simply talking, which is fine. Occasionally, you’ll get the bodypopping flashmobs of guys who’ll surround a girl in seconds. But it’s a very rare thing.

In America, the difference is terrifying. Not to be cruel or demeaning towards the Americans – since, after all, I am working for a website created by a handful of them – but there seems to be a lot of them on Home who are desperately lonely. Every girl that enters the Central Plaza is instantly ambushed by a crowd of men of all shapes and sizes. It can be a horrifying experience.

To put to the test the conversation skills of the average American Home user, I tried a little experiment. Having initially disguised myself as a typical male American, I stood in the middle of the Plaza and waited for someone to talk to me. It took about two and a half minutes for somebody to come and talk to me, and even then they ran off when I started to type a reply.

Then, I switched personas and things got interesting. Once again, I stood in the middle of the Central Plaza and started the timer. It took 25 seconds for 4 blokes (and a girl) to surround me. Second time round it took 7 seconds for 4 guys to surround me and begin their bodypopping. The flirting was outrageous, too.

Trying the same thing in Europe generates some attention, but not to as much of a degree as you would find across the Atlantic. What separates American Home users from European ones other than nationality? What makes them so prone to harass every female avatar they see? Furthermore, are there moderation tools in place to deal with this sort of thing? One hopes Home has officials constantly on watch to prevent this sort of thing, as it’s happening a lot to people I know too.

The one, overarching question that remains is this: are there really that many lonely PS3 owners out there? One PSN friend commented that with Home, the PlayStation Network had found its own Xbox LIVE community: one filled with racists, homophobes and sexists that were once hidden behind a facade of silence, now unleashed on the rest of the userbase through the magic of text chat. It almost makes you grateful that you don’t get a headset included with your PS3.

The attitudes of users isn’t the only difference between the American and the European editions of Home. Keep an eye on the front page for my next article on Home where I compare the two. As usual with my European comparison articles, you can guess who gets the sharp end of the stick.




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  1. Episode 27: Warhawk, Home, and Mass Effect
  2. My Perfect Home
  3. US Playstation Owners Going Home Soon?
  4. Rothbart’s Rant #40 – “Anybody Home?”
  5. Playstation Home: How much for that virtual lamp?

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  • http://sarcasticgamer.com/forums/member.php?u=510 Shane86

    Woo I was mentioned in two articles today! It’s seriously sad how guys hover over the girl avatars, 90% of them are men anyway.

  • http://nerdydove.wordpress.com FinalWhiteDove

    Wow, it’s seriously worrying, however, I can understand where it comes from, sex is one of the hardest things guys out there find it hard to control, especially nowadays when it is so easy to find in every type of media or perhaps it is a bunch of nerds, note nerds, not geeks, who don’t have a social life or get out of the house much.

    So this being their new “home” they decided to truly make themselves at home as is so often done in an environment where you think that you can no longer be penalised like in the real world, although it is interesting that they don’t think of the consequences of their actions, although I suppose that they got lost in the thrill.

    Either way, I hope this behaviour is QUICKLY stopped so that the decent members of home can “live” in a safe and happy environment without fear of this sort of behaviour continuing.

    -FWD

  • http://ognawk.wordpress.com Kwangoski

    Yeah, pretty much all software with avatars and lots of people online in one place has that effect. I have a female bank character in WoW who gets hit on quite often.

  • Whodini1

    Man, how come so many people have forgotten the legend that is…

    THE INTERNET: Where Men are Men, Women are Men and 15 year old girls are FBI agents…

  • Henry Harris

    I’m an adult male who’s interested in the possibilities of Home and interacting with smart, creative people of either sex. I created my avatar to look like me as much as possible, pretty boring idea I guess. But interestingly I find that simply staying away from the creeps is a drawing point for the types I’d want to interact with, so I’m hopeful at this point. I’ve ordered a bluetooth headset so that should help. Although I live in America, I’ve traveled in Europe and I’ve always liked the people I’ve met over there. I’m hoping I’ll meet some in Home.

  • JaXboxChick77

    Some days it’s tough to be a chick…especially in gaming.

  • Proximately

    I think that people will eventually grow out of it. It’s not like they won’t realise they’ll never get a girl on Home. I wish there was a slap function… In one way, but then we would probably have people slapping eachother all the time. Sad as you said.

    I haven’t seen much female stalking in Europes Home either, but one time I was walking past them as a girl walked by (apparently, I never saw her though xD ) and the first thing I see is a text message saying “Is that a girl?”… At that moment I was embarrassed for being a guy.

  • http://sarcasticgamer.com/wp/index.php/author/yousty/ Yousty

    Welcome to a “real” online community PS3 owners. You all thought your user base was so much more mature than all the screaming 12 year olds on XBL, but you were dead wrong.

    Hopefully now all the bashing on just the 360 will cease since the PS3 is now no better.

    btw, Home is the most useless thing I’ve ever installed on my PS3. What a joke Sony, what a joke.

  • walkyourpath

    Do a search on “PS3 Home Quincy” and there are some hilarious things that the male gamers in the US are doing to provide a little deterrent to those slobbering idiots who make it so hard for women to enjoy the game space with us!

    Hang in there, ladies! Guy gamers are not a lost cause. At least that’s what my wife tells me.

  • Samir

    urmaaaam

  • Diortem

    ….Im not shocked at all… Home and XBL give a home on consoles to the people we all complain about on MMOs on the PC.

    Although the mental image of everyone slapping each other was funnt as hell… especially after the “WHAT AM I? WHAT AM I?” video you guys showed me. Actually, I think that shows humanity quite nicely when they dont think they can get in trouble.

  • SergeantCarnage

    How long before we see this on the evening news? At least on XBL you can mute and block rather easy. It wont be as easy on Home.

    Its almost like a zombie movie when females appear. Its rather sad.

  • http://www.clearlake.uk.com Damian

    Xbox Live was renowned for the bad attitude which seemed to be lacking on PSN. It occurred to me that, as a PS3 owner, it would only take a “suitable” application to bring the worst out in people, that had been there all along, and here it is.

    I’d love to play online a bit more (generally, not on Home), but I have a small friends list (most people I know don’t own PS3s) and picking games with random strangers has brought out a lot of idiots so far.

  • Kira Blaize

    Ugh. This annoys me. I think there’s also some measure of the “girl gamer” effect. My best friend works at Borders and when she actually talked about the game that a customer bought a strategy guide for, she got what she calls the “oh my god a gamer with boobs” reaction.

    I don’t think it’s so much the loneliness aspect of it, but instead the pathetic aspect of it.

  • http://www.sarcasticgamer.com Yamster

    @Kira Blaize: Exactly. My girlfriend tried logging onto the American Home servers too (as herself) and a few of the reactions were quite literally “Hi there…eh, she’s probably a dude”.

    Plenty of gamers need to learn to grow up.

  • Kira Blaize

    @Yamster: Yeah, because gender is really an important thing in gaming. ugh.

    Seems like Home is going to be like XBL to an extent. To get an enjoyable experience, you’ll have to play with friends only most of the time.

  • Mara

    I’m a girl, and I am Argentinian. Last time I logged in the American Home, I started chatting with a mexican, cuz he was there to chat and I was too. We where having a very nice conversation in spanish. Maybe after a minute, a few americans came to us and, apart from dancing crazy around us and blocking the view, started saying things like: “burrito”, “sombrero”, “soy mexicano no tengo dinero”, “****o”, “leave you,mexican!”, “go back to your country”, and more stupid things. Let alone the nasty propositions i got as a girl, and the sexual insults i got. We tryed not to pay attention and kept on talking. in one moment we were sorrounded by 10 morons. and we couldn’t find the way of chatting without having at least 2 americans insulting us. It was really sad.

  • IWishIHadAnXbox

    @Mara: That’s just plain sad. (Algunos gringos tienen demasiado tiempo libre -.-)

    So basically girls that use Home should pretend they’re male…? :/

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